Perspective
UPDATE: Dinner never occurred. It was to be last Wednesday but both of us had scheduling conflicts...so we moved to Friday. Friday morning I get an email cancelling with a good excuse...but one he should have made prior to the day of...
so my response was that i understood but that since he didn't seem to be interested in having dinner with me and i was starting to feel same...we shouldn't worry with rescheduling.
i got no response to that...
which is probably for the best. i'm sure i'll see him around and unfortunately for me i have much bigger things to worry about...
posted by romance junkie @ Sunday, March 25, 2007
7 Comments:
Ouch...I recently did the same thing. If we don't feel like seeing the dude, why should we feel bad about canceling. I canceled without an excuse, I had never done that. Initially I felt bad. I got over it.
Good for you. I think we should all try to spend our free time doing things we enjoy, not honoring obligations (we do enough of that).
yeah. it was a hard email to write in some ways...because there was a part of me that wanted to say okay let's pick another time...but i'm tired of being cancelled on...he could have easily written back that he was interested..made some sort of play...but he didn't...so i'll chalk it up to his disinterest...and move on :D i have a really "fun" weekend coming up anyways...so who needs him
That's the spirit! Once you open yourself up to more opportunities you will attract someone that it won't be "work" for you.
This is supposed to be the fun time, that's how I see it.
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He's ajerk and you deserve better...you did the right thing.
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