Called Out.
So, Starboard Tack called us out in his blog from today...said we girls have been silent.
Crickets.
We have. And, hopefully, the rest of my blogettes will get back on the bandwagon. Or else.
In the meantime, I can fill you in on the life and times of RD and RCB. Our trip north was better than I could have ever imagined. I was greeted with hugs and a birthday cake with my name on it. The entire family was welcoming and sweet and I never, for one second, felt the least bit uncomfortable or insecure. The whole four days I was with them.
I was, admittedly, a tad bit "worried" that RCB would be a bit reserved around his family; in other words, my usual feeling of putting out a "hands to yourself" rule would not be in effect. It turns out he was just as, if not more so, affectionate than usual. There was no lacking in the hand holding, random hugs, kiss on the top of the head moments. Does this show comfort?
Though it was a family weekend, we were able to get in some alone time, which was nice. All in all, the whole experience was better than I could have imagined and, scarily enough, I could see many such similar weekends in my future.
He has been beyond wonderful lately and I'm not even scared by it. He says what he's feeling when he's feeling it and I like that. We have definitely reached a new level these past few weeks, with all the family stuff we've been doing. We are now really a we. He said it best the other night: "RD, it's not just you and me any more. Now it's us."
We are an us.
posted by Reluctant Dater @ Thursday, April 26, 2007
5 Comments:
Oh wow...I love this! You two sound so cute.
Reluctant Dater: When you first started posting about RCB, I was dead certain that it would never work out. Later, I was even more certain. I almost posted an "I told you so..."
But now, I am realizing I was wrong, and I am surprised at how great things are going for you -- and truly pleased and happy for you.
I really am very, very happy for you!
but the burning question is...
did you sleep in the same bed???
;)
with only three bedrooms in the house and no suitable couch on which anyone (even 5 foot me) could sleep comfortably, we had no choice BUT to sleep in the same room, in the same bed. don't tell my mom.
It's so refreshing to date a guy who doesn't play the head or guessing games, isn't it? the only problem I have is that he and I are both liek that so things can have a tendency to get more tense than usual. But then qwe talk it through and everything works out in the end.
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