Playing With Matches

What started as a means of chronicling the online dating experiences of two picky yet adventurous almost thirty somethings has turned into a chronicle of all that is, was and has made up their collective dating histories. Our two original daters are now joined by several other fun, breezy, sassy gals, and Playing With Matches is now a missive on dating misadventures, a cacophony of ups and downs, turmoil and bliss. With a bit of snark mixed in here and there.

Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Falling...

...into the trap. Of not writing about my relationships when they are going well.

And, friends, I think I finally have one. A relationship, that is. This is the first time I don't have to say "relationship." Wow. It makes me feel pretentious to say it, like I've turned into that girl, the one who makes things out to be more than they actually are.

I don't want to give details just yet, so as not to jinx it (whatever it may be or become). But, in case you're interested, things with RCB are going well. Very well. I hope that it continues. Thanks to my self-proclaimed (and since adopted as such) life coach...ie the friend who didn't let me sit down and watch this opportunity pass me by; "if you want something, go after it," she said again and again.

So I did. Open mind, open heart, open communication. Closed cynicism switch. Trust.

And a lot of smooching.

7 Comments:

Blogger JoJo said...

I empathize as things are going well with Flyby, I'm reluctant to write about it. Good luck to you.

7:31 AM  
Blogger romance junkie said...

happy for you but you should blog about it. it would be great material:D

8:52 AM  
Blogger Frankly, Scarlett said...

Hurray for the smooching!!

So glad to hear it's going well, doll!

10:18 AM  
Blogger Beth said...

Aw! That's wonderful! I feel like I'm going to fall into that trap too, if and when it (ever) happens. Being cynical and sarcastic is just the name of my game and I think it might kill me to let on that I actually like someone. Haha. But, tis true--we would love to read about your adventures! My fingers and toes are crossed for you! :)

11:02 AM  
Blogger jo said...

i'm so happy for you. i should learn to close that cynicism switch...

9:51 PM  
Blogger romance junkie said...

i'm not cynical these days just disinterested or uninterested or whatever...but am ecstatic for she who is rd

10:11 PM  
Blogger allan said...

We want details RD :)!!!

Congrats, and smooching is a good thing (err...I think it is, its been a while for me ;))

10:33 PM  

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